May-December Marriages: Do They Work?

So, if this young man hooks up with an older woman, perhaps your own mother, who some may call a 'cougar', who is about 20 years older than himself, do you think it is 'real' love? Or would you be tempted to think that he was into it for money? What about older men 20 years older than a younger woman? Same? Or Different? Please tell us your thoughts about this "Flaming Hot Topic" by commenting below, and remember, you can even remain anonymous!